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With men, we blame the victim. We blame men because we have camouflaged men's victimization by teaching men to also be the victimizer. Men's victimizer status camouflages men's victim status.

Warren Farrell

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Warren Farrell
Age: 81
Born: 1943
Born: June 26
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