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The more I focused on my need to get better the worse I actually got - the more neurotic and self-conscious and self-absorbed I became.

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Tullian Tchividjian
Age: 52
Born: 1972
Born: July 13
Pastor
Writer
Jacksonville
Florida
William Graham Tullian Tchividjian
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Absorbed
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Neurotic
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Focused
Worse
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Conscious
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