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I tend to agree that celibacy for a time is worth considering, for sex is dirty if all it means is winning a man, conquering a woman, beating someone out of something, abusing each other's dignity in order to prove that I am a man, I am a woman.

Toni Cade Bambara

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Toni Cade Bambara
Age: 56 †
Born: 1939
Born: March 25
Died: 1995
Died: December 9
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Novelist
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University Teacher
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New York City
New York
Toni Cade
Miltona Mirkin Cade
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... in a capitalist society a man is expected to be an aggressive, uncompromising, factual, lusty, intelligent provider of goods,and the woman, a retiring, gracious, emotional, intuitive, attractive consumer of goods.
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