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The English reputation for humour is a way by which people avoid revealing themselves and have superficial relationships, so that you can engage in banter without making yourself vulnerable.

Theodore Zeldin

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Theodore Zeldin
Age: 91
Born: 1933
Born: August 22
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British Mandate for Palestine
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