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Even a few moments of offering lovingkindness can reconnect you with the purity of your loving heart.

Tara Brach

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Tara Brach
Age: 71
Born: 1953
Born: May 17
Peace Activist
Psychologist
Teacher
Reconnect
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Purity
Loving
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If attachment then carries forward in a way that's not healthy, we need to let it be there without making it wrong and bring as compassionate and honest attention to it as possible. Honor that this is part of being human, but it's important to know when it's getting in the way.
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By regarding ourselves with kindness, we begin to dissolve the identity of an isolated, deficient self. This creates the grounds for including others in an unconditionally loving heart.
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If we're not open to losing, we're not open to loving.
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Observing desire without acting on it enlarges our freedom to choose how we live.
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If I'm judging the attachment, myself, or another person, then I create separation.
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Mindfulness is a pause - the space between stimulus and response: that's where choice lies.
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The spiritual path is not a solo endeavor. In fact, the very notion of a self who is trying to free her/ himself is a delusion. We are in it together and the company of spiritual friends helps us realize our interconnectedness.
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The trance of unworthiness keeps the sweetness of belonging out of reach. The path to the sweetness of belonging, is acceptance - acceptance of ourselves and acceptance of others without judgment.
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The main thing going on around intimacy is that we've developed a lot of strategies so we'll be a desirable package.
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Extend an act of kindness each day. No one has to know. It can be a smile, reassuring words, a small favor - without expecting something in return.
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Just come into stillness. Have your intention be to relax with the breath. That will begin to set in motion a habit that will start to train the mind.
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Pain is not wrong. Reacting to pain as wrong initiates the trance of unworthiness. The moment we believe something is wrong, our world shrinks and we lose ourselves in the effort to combat the pain.
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People don't behave in angry ways unless they are feeling stressed and conflicted too.
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Telling each other the truth and being who we are, and having space for the other person's vulnerability in being who they are, allows us to move in a kind of dance together that's very fluid and graceful.
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In intimate relationships, if we start trying to be more real, it's very scary.
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But this revolutionary act of treating ourselves tenderly can begin to undo the aversive messages of a lifetime.
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Managing life from our mental control towers, we have separated ourselves from our bodies and hearts.
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It is through realizing loving presence as our very essence, through being that presence, that we discover true freedom.
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If I can forgive the attachment in myself and open to the vulnerability that's underneath it, then rather than fixating on another person to satisfy my need, I'm actually going right to where the needs come from and able to bring a real healing.
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