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Being silent for me doesn't require being in a quiet place and it doesnt mean not saying words. It means, receiving in a balanced, noncombative way what is happening. With or without words, the hope of my heart is that it will be able to relax and acknowledge the truth of my situation with compassion.

Sylvia Boorstein

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