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A lot of people seem to want to make the institution of marriage substitute for a real relationship.

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Susan Faludi
Age: 65
Born: 1959
Born: April 18
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In the '30s and '40s, the search for Hungarian national identity led famously to an alliance with Hitler and the destruction of more than a half million of the nation's Jews. And here we are now, more than 70 years later, witnessing a resurgence of xenophobia and authoritarianism, and not just in Eastern Europe.
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Trump's Make America Great Again program trumpets a national identity built on scapegoating, self-pity and grandiosity, and the promise of a strongman.
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