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As an adolescent, I went to charm school, where I learned to pour tea and relate to boys, which, as I recall, meant giving them the pickle jar to unscrew, whether it was too hard for me or not.

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Sue Monk Kidd
Age: 76
Born: 1948
Born: August 12
Novelist
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Georgia
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