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True love is not the helpless desire to possess the cherished object of one's fervent affection true love is the disciplined generosity we require of ourselves for the sake of another when we would rather be selfish that, at least, is how I have taught myself to love my wife.

Stephen L. Carter

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Stephen L. Carter
Age: 70
Born: 1954
Born: October 26
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