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These people you used to see every day, friends or acquaintances, after a while they become as distant as any stranger, people you suddenly recall late at night--you remember something they said or something silly that someone once did. For a few moments they completely occupy your mind then you forget them again.

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Stephen Dobyns
Age: 83
Born: 1941
Born: February 19
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They are asleep. This is the condition they prefer. They are afraid of the world and sleep is a way of dealing with their fear. Someday they will wake. Perhaps something frightful will happen. Indeed, there is no better invitation to the frightful than ignorance - that is, sleep. (29)
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I majored in English in college and that was my major in graduate school before switching to creative writing. I read a lot of [Charles] Dickens and [Anthony ] Trollope, but there was lots of stuff I hadn't read like Thackeray's Vanity Fair, which is so well written and funny.
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I never read Ford Madox Ford's The Good Soldier. I've been reading books that I should have read years ago and did not. That's one of them.
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Writing is a job, a craft, and you learn it by trying to write every day and by facing the page with humility and gall. And you have to love to read books, all kinds of books, good books. You are not looking for anything in particular you are just letting stuff seep in.
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One writes a poem when one is so taken up by an emotional concept that one is unable to remain silent.
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I'm reading The Sunset of a Splendid Century by W.H. Lewis. He was C.S. Lewis's brother. He wrote two books about the French court of Louis XIV that are incredibly detailed. They are books that on every page you say, Wow, think of that.
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Other than fiction and poetry I tend to read history.
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Actions have consequences. Ignorance about the nature of those actions does not free a person from responsibility for the consequences. (28)
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It was as if pain were a room he had entered and the door had been locked behind him.
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