Your heart matters most, so be gentler and more patient with yourself, and their hearts matter most, too, so be kinder and more compassionate to others.

Their words of encouragement were just what I needed. I was doing a great job, and I appreciated their cheers. I felt a dormlike camaraderie in the burn unit, since each of us knew the challenges we were facing like no one else could, and therefore how meaningful each triumph was.

Happiness was my choice, and though it is hard-won, I am the only person who can stand in the way of it.

It's a beautiful heart, not a perfect body, that leads to a beautiful life.