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Heterosexuality - whichever gender you are - says that the other gender is very important to you.

Shirley Geok-lin Lim

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Shirley Geok-lin Lim
Age: 79
Born: 1944
Born: December 27
Journalist
Literary Critic
Writer
Malacca City
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Heterosexuality
Whichever
Gender
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Sometimes the taproot and the vines are far apart. Like English and the Asian poem.
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My brothers were my peers, but they were not the preeminent male figures in my emotional life.
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I feel compassionate, because I know [students] all have to go down this road of suffering and it's going to be tough.
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This condition [irony] has nothing to do with writer's block, a psychological syndrome, which is one of the few I have not diagnosed for myself!
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Note, the reply will not be I write, an act that I have, after all, been performing since I was nine.
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Wouldn't that be wonderful if I could do that? And that way, I could walk with the muse, rather than walk without her. The novel would write itself.
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I was not - even the notion of could not seems to suggest a moment of recognition, but it was such a repressed dimension - I was not able to NOT wear a shirt like my brothers could. My brothers would, in the heat, run around shirtless, and I wouldn't do that, obviously.
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