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Human relationships are rich and they're messy and they're demanding. And we clean them up with technology. We sacrifice conversation for mere connection.

Sherry Turkle

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Sherry Turkle
Age: 76
Born: 1948
Born: June 18
Non-Fiction Writer
Professor
Psychologist
Sociologist
University Teacher
New York City
New York
Conversation
Messy
Technology
Connection
Rich
Caring
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Happens
Relationships
Seems
Clean
Human
Mere
Humans
Sacrifice
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