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In America we tell our parents to bring their child home and put him or her in a crib as they get older, children sleep in they own room not in Mom and Dad's room. What are we training them for? It's independence, because that's what being empowered is all about.

Sheena Iyengar

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Sheena Iyengar
Age: 54
Born: 1969
Born: November 29
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City of Toronto
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Now to what...? How we teach people to make choices and the things they're going to make choices over - that is culturally learned.
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I mean can you walk to school on your own? Can you study science? Can you study math? Can you go to a normal school? Do you need to go to a special school? What is going to become of you when you grow up? Are you going to have to live on social security and SSI?
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You know give me choices that are truly different from one another, otherwise they don't regard them as meaningful choices.
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Now if you expand their choice set. Say you give them 20 different speed dates, everything goes out the window. Everybody starts choosing in accordance with looks because that becomes the easiest criteria by which to weed out all the options and decide So who am I going to say yes to?
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