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True love in Mexico isn't between lovers it's between a parent and a child. Mexico is a very intense culture of sons adoring their mothers, and this is why I claim that Mexican culture is matriarchal. Because the one constant, faithful, inviolable, holy love of loves - the love of your life - is not your wife or your lover it's your mother.

Sandra Cisneros

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Sandra Cisneros
Age: 69
Born: 1954
Born: December 20
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I'm from Chicago, so the Chicago working-class poets still mean a great deal to me.
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