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The secret of living well is not in having all the answers but in pursuing unanswerable questions in good company.

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Rachel Naomi Remen
Age: 86
Born: 1938
Born: February 8
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Perhaps losing integrity with yourself is the greatest stress of all, far more hurtful to us than competition, time pressure, or lack of respect. Our vitality is rooted in our integrity. When we do not live in one piece, our life force becomes divided. Becoming separated from our authentic values may weaken us.
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The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention…. A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words.
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When you listen generously to people they can hear the truth in themselves, often for the first time.
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Goose bumps happen when your soul is close to you, breathing lightly on the back of your neck, and wakes you up.
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Our limitations serve, our wounds serve, even our darkness can serve.
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An unanswered question is a fine traveling companion. It sharpens your eye for the road.
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In order to live fully we may need to look deeply at our own suffering and at the suffering of others. In the depths of every wound we have survived is the strength we need to live. The wisdom our wounds can offer us is a place of refuge. Finding this is not for the faint of heart. But then, neither is life.
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If you carry someone else's fears and live by someone else's values, you may find that you have lived their lives.
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Sooner or later we will come to the edge of all that we can control and find life, waiting there for us.
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When we pray, we don't change the world, we change ourselves.
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Deep inside, our integrity sings to us whether we are listening or not. It is a note that only we can hear. Eventually, when life makes us ready to listen, it will help us to find our way home.
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This simple thing has not been that easy to learn. it certainly went against everything I had been taught since I was very young. I thought people listened only because they were too timid to speak or did not know the answer. A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well intentioned words.
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I think that people get experiences, and out of those experiences come meaning and ideas. It's like watching a rose bush grow.
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Anger is just a demand for change, a passionate wish for things to be different.
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Helping, fixing, and serving represent three different ways of seeing life. When you help, you see life as weak. when you fix, you see life as broken. When you serve, you see life as whole. Fixing and helping may be the work of the ego, and service the work of the soul.
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As I age I am grateful to find that a silence has begun to gather in me, coexisting with my tempers and my fears, unchanged by my joys or my pain. Sanctuary. Connected to the Silence everywhere.
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The wisdom in the story of the most educated and powerful person is often not greater than the wisdom in the story of a child, and the life of a child can teach us as much as the life of a sage.
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I spent the first forty years of my life making major interventions into other people's lives, and I have an idea of the limitations of that method. I see a major event as rather like major surgery. It is a moment, but whether people use it, whether people go with it, needs to be seen.
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When people are blessed they discover that their lives matter, that there is something in them worthy of blessing.
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At the deepest level, the creative process and the healing process arise from a single source. When you are an artist, you are a healer a wordless trust of the same mystery is the foundation of your work and its integrity.
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