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Rachel Naomi Remen
Age: 86
Born: 1938
Born: February 8
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If you carry someone else's fears and live by someone else's values, you may find that you have lived their lives.
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Goose bumps happen when your soul is close to you, breathing lightly on the back of your neck, and wakes you up.
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Every great loss demands that we choose life again. We need to grieve in order to do this. The pain we have not grieved over will always stand between us and life. When we don't grieve, a part of us becomes caught in the past like Lot's wife who, because she looked back, was turned into a pillar of salt.
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Fear is the friction in all transitions.
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In the silence of listening, you can know yourself in everyone, the unseen singing softly to itself and to you.
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When people are blessed they discover that their lives matter, that there is something in them worthy of blessing.
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Perhaps losing integrity with yourself is the greatest stress of all, far more hurtful to us than competition, time pressure, or lack of respect. Our vitality is rooted in our integrity. When we do not live in one piece, our life force becomes divided. Becoming separated from our authentic values may weaken us.
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Sooner or later we will come to the edge of all that we can control and find life, waiting there for us.
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Helping, fixing, and serving represent three different ways of seeing life. When you help, you see life as weak. when you fix, you see life as broken. When you serve, you see life as whole. Fixing and helping may be the work of the ego, and service the work of the soul.
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Our limitations serve, our wounds serve, even our darkness can serve.
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Perhaps wisdom is simply a matter of waiting, and healing a question of time. And anything good you've ever been given is yours forever.
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Grieving allows us to heal, to remember with love rather than pain. It is a sorting process. One by one you let go of the things that are gone and you mourn for them. One by one you take hold of the things that have become a part of who you are and build again.
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We may need to let go of our beliefs and ideas about life in order to have life.
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Illiness could be considered a Western form of meditation.
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Healing may not be so much about getting better, as about letting go of everything that isn’t you - all of the expectations, all of the beliefs - and becoming who you are.
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I think ideas only lead to change for intellectual people and not even them. What really leads to change is experience. Life itself is the teacher.
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Cancer changes your whole life.
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In order to live fully we may need to look deeply at our own suffering and at the suffering of others. In the depths of every wound we have survived is the strength we need to live. The wisdom our wounds can offer us is a place of refuge. Finding this is not for the faint of heart. But then, neither is life.
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Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention
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The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention…. A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words.
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