I like sex writing that makes me think, makes me cringe, makes me angry, makes me look at it in a new way.

I'm one of those always busy type of people, so when there's a lull, I find something to fill it.

At the end of the day, no one knows everything about sex, we all have things we can learn.

I started out writing largely about my own sex life, but I always tried to bring that around to the bigger picture, and how I was or wasn't in sync with the rest of the culture. And I think people appreciated that I was frank and honest about sex, but also political.

Do whatever you want, and don't worry about what everyone else is into.

I'd really like to see smart sex writing, writing that can take sex apart and try to put it back together, that doesn't just put a box around sex writing and give it glaring neon lights but assumes that sex is part of everything else in our lives.