At the end of the day, no one knows everything about sex, we all have things we can learn.

I'm one of those always busy type of people, so when there's a lull, I find something to fill it.

I started out writing largely about my own sex life, but I always tried to bring that around to the bigger picture, and how I was or wasn't in sync with the rest of the culture. And I think people appreciated that I was frank and honest about sex, but also political.

Do whatever you want, and don't worry about what everyone else is into.

I like sex writing that makes me think, makes me cringe, makes me angry, makes me look at it in a new way.

I'd really like to see smart sex writing, writing that can take sex apart and try to put it back together, that doesn't just put a box around sex writing and give it glaring neon lights but assumes that sex is part of everything else in our lives.