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Suddenly we have a baby who poops and cries, and we are trying to calm, clean up, and pin things together all at once. Then as fast as we learn to cope--so soon--it is hard to recall why diapers ever seemed so important. The frontiers change, and now perhaps we have a teenager we can't reach.

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Polly Berrien Berends
Age: 84 †
Born: 1930
Born: July 14
Died: 2014
Died: September 20
Actor
Author
Entrepreneur
Film Actor
Musician
Singer
Stage Actor
Television Actor
Writer
Knoxville
Tennessee
Nellie Paulina Burgin
Nellie Burgin
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