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I am apt to be harsh in my secret judgments of others, seeing them as defective because they are not enough like me.

Phillip Lopate

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Phillip Lopate
Age: 81
Born: 1943
Born: November 16
Film Critic
Novelist
Brooklyn
New York
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Defective
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