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Pema Chodron
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Pema Chodron
Age: 88
Born: 1936
Born: July 14
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All you need to know is that the future is wide open and you are about to create it by what you do.
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Compassionate action starts with seeing yourself when you start to make yourself right and when you start to make yourself wrong. At that point you could just contemplate the fact that there is a larger alternative to either of those, a more tender, shaky kind of place where you could live.
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The biggest obstacle to taking a bigger perspective on life is that our emotions capture and blind us.
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Are you experiencing restlessness? Stay! Are fear and loathing out of control? Stay! Aching knees and throbbing back? Stay! What's for lunch? Stay! I can't stand this another minute! Stay!
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Whatever you are doing, take the attitude of wanting it directly or indirectly to benefit others. Take the attitude of wanting it to increase your experience of kinship with your fellow beings.
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Patience is not learned in safety.
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All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
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This moving away from comfort and security, this stepping out into what is unknown, uncharted and shaky - that's called liberation.
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When we touch the center of sorrow, when we sit with discomfort without trying to fix it, when we stay present to the pain of disapproval or betrayal and let it soften us, these are times that we connect with bohdichitta.
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Never give up on yourself. Then you will never give up on others.
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True compassion does not come from wanting to help out those less fortunate than ourselves but from realizing our kinship with all beings.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
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To live is to be willing to die over and over again.
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Resisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
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When we are willing to stay even a moment with uncomfortable energy, we gradually learn not to fear it.
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When things are shaky and nothing is working, we might realize that we are on the verge of something. We might realize that this is a very vulnerable and tender place, and that tenderness can go either way. We can shut down and feel resentful or we can touch in on that throbbing quality. (9)
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The approach is that the best way to use unwanted circumstances on the path of enlightenment is not to resist but to lean into them.
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It isn't the things that happen to us in our lives that cause us to suffer, it's how we relate to the things that happen to us that causes us to suffer.
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As Buddhism moved to the West, one of the big characteristics was the strong place of women. That didn't exist in the countries of origin. It's just a sign of our culture.
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When people are hurting, what they really need is someone who is fully there for them - not someone who is condescending or officious. The only way for you to be there for them is by facing your fear or anger, whatever feelings cause you to shut down.
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