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We feel that we have to be right so that we can feel good... The whole right and wrong business closes us down and makes our world smaller.
Pema Chodron
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Pema Chodron
Age: 88
Born: 1936
Born: July 14
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Unconditional good heart toward others is not even a possibility unless we attend to our own demons.
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The greatest obstacle to connecting with our joy is resentment.
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It isn't the things that are happening to us that cause us to suffer, it's what we say to ourselves about the things that are happening. The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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