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Inner # peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your # emotions

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Pema Chodron
Age: 88
Born: 1936
Born: July 14
Clergyman
Philosopher
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New York City
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Deirdre Blomfield-Brow
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Just where you are-that's the place to start!
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The idea is to develop sympathy for your own confusion.
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We work on ourselves in order to help others, but also we help others in order to work on ourselves.
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Let difficulty transform you. And it will. In my experience, we just need help in learning how not to run away.
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When there's a disappointment, I don't know if it's the end of the story. It may just be the beginning of a great adventure.
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Honesty without kindness, humor, and goodheartedness can be just mean.
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