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Meditation takes us just as we are, with our confusion and our sanity. This complete acceptance of ourselves as we are is called maitri, or unconditional friendliness, a simple, direct relationship with the way we are.
Pema Chodron
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Pema Chodron
Age: 88
Born: 1936
Born: July 14
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Deirdre Blomfield-Brow
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This very moment is the perfect teacher, and, lucky for us, it's with us wherever we go.
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Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings.
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