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Obstacles are our friends: they teach us where we're stuck.
Pema Chodron
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Pema Chodron
Age: 88
Born: 1936
Born: July 14
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Deirdre Blomfield-Brow
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We have two alternatives: either we question our beliefs - or we don't. Either we accept our fixed versions of reality- or we begin to challenge them. In Buddha's opinion, to train in staying open and curious - to train in dissolving our assumptions and beliefs - is the best use of our human lives.
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This moving away from comfort and security, this stepping out into what is unknown, uncharted and shaky - that's called liberation.
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Our true nature is like a precious jewel: although it may be temporarily buried in mud, it remains completely brilliant and unaffected. We simply have to uncover it.
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All you need to know is that the future is wide open and you are about to create it by what you do.
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But all the time our warmth and brilliance are right here. This is who we really are. We are one blink of an eye away from being fully awake.
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Unconditional good heart toward others is not even a possibility unless we attend to our own demons.
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At some point, we realize that what we do for ourselves benefits others, and what we do for others benefits us.
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The painful thing is that when we buy into disapproval,we are practicing disapproval. When we buy into harshness,we are practicing harshness.
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The truth is that good and bad coexist sour and sweet coexist. They aren't really opposed to each other.
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The only reason we don't open our hearts and minds to other people is that they trigger confusion in us that we don't feel brave enough or sane enough to deal with. To the degree that we look clearly and compassionately at ourselves, we feel confident and fearless about looking into someone else's eyes.
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Buddhism itself is all about empowering yourself, not about getting what you want.
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Surrendering, letting go of possessiveness, and complete nonattachment-all are synonyms for accumulating merit.
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The first noble truth of the Buddha is that when we feel suffering, it doesn’t mean that something is wrong. What a relief.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
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Compassion starts with making friends with ourselves.
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Each time you stay present with fear and uncertainty, you're letting go of a habitual way of finding security and comfort.
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As for our inner level of obstacle, perhaps the only enemy we have is that we don't like the way reality is now and therefore wish it would go away fast. But what we need to acknowledge is that nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
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We can drop the fundamental hope that there is a better me who one day will emerge. We can't just jump over ourselves as if we were not there.
Pema Chodron
Compassionate action starts with seeing yourself when you start to make yourself right and when you start to make yourself wrong. At that point you could just contemplate the fact that there is a larger alternative to either of those, a more tender, shaky kind of place where you could live.
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Ego is something that you come to know - something that you befriend by not acting out or by repressing all the feelings that you feel.
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