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It isn't what happens to us that causes us to suffer it's what we say to ourselves about what happens.
Pema Chodron
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Pema Chodron
Age: 88
Born: 1936
Born: July 14
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We sow the seeds of our future hells or happiness by the way we open or close our minds right now.
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Generosity is an activity that loosens us up. By offering whatever we can - a dollar, a flower, a word of encouragement - we are training in letting go.
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The essence of practice is always the same: instead of falling prey to a chain reaction of revenge or self-hatred, we gradually learn to catch the emotional reaction and drop the story lines.
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In a nutshell, when life is pleasant, think of others. When life is a burden, think of others.
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To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest.
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If we knew that tonight we were going to go blind, we would take a long, last real look at every blade of grass, every cloud formation, every speck of dust, every rainbow, raindrop-everything.
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Someone needs to encourage us not to brush aside what we feel. Not to be ashamed of the love and grief that it arouses in us. Not to be afraid of pain. Someone needs to encourage us: that this soft spot in us could be awakened, and that to do this would change our lives.
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When things are shaky and nothing is working, we might realize that we are on the verge of something. We might realize that this is a very vulnerable and tender place, and that tenderness can go either way. We can shut down and feel resentful or we can touch in on that throbbing quality. (9)
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Every small problem most likely stems from the same root as large problems, and so there is no need to always go deep. One can use anything for the therapeutic process and/if this link is made.
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Opening to the world begins to benefit ourselves and others simultaneously. The more we relate with others, the more quickly we discover where we're blocked.
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By not knowing, not hoping to know and not acting like we know what's happening, we begin to access our inner strength.
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While we are sitting in meditation, we are simply exploring humanity and all of creation in the form of ourselves.
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The truth you believe and cling to makes you unavailable to hear anything new.
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To put it concisely, we suffer when we resist the noble and irrefutable truth of impermanence and death.
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