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What you do for yourself, you're doing for others, and what you do for others, you're doing for yourself.
Pema Chodron
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Pema Chodron
Age: 88
Born: 1936
Born: July 14
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If you aren't feeding the fire of anger or the fire of craving by talking to yourself, then the fire doesn't have anything to feed on.
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By the way that we think and by the way that we believe in things, in that way our world is created.
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If you work with your mind, instead of trying to change everything on the outside, that's how your temper will cool down.
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We sow the seeds of our future hells or happiness by the way we open or close our minds right now.
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So war and peace start in the human heart. Whether that heart is open or whether that heart closes has global implications.
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When we scratch the wound and give into our addictions we do not allow the wound to heal.
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Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
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