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Never give up on yourself. Then you will never give up on others.

Pema Chodron

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Pema Chodron
Age: 88
Born: 1936
Born: July 14
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There is no cultivation of patience when your pattern is to just try to seek harmony and smooth everything out. Patience implies willingness to be alive rather than trying to seek harmony.
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Most spiritual experiences begin with suffering. They begin with groundlessness. They begin when the rug has been pulled out from under us.
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Fear itself is the vanguard of wisdom
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Rejoicing in ordinary things is not sentimental or trite. It actually takes guts. Each time we drop our complaints and allow everyday good fortune to inspire us, we enter the warrior's world.
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Unconditional good heart toward others is not even a possibility unless we attend to our own demons.
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Compassion becomes real when we recognize our shared humanity.
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The most complete and true happiness comes in moments when you feel right there, completely present, with no ideas about good and bad, right and wrong - just a sense of open heart and open mind.
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Patience is not learned in safety.
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The third noble truth says that the cessation of suffering is letting go of holding on to ourselves.
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When you begin to touch your heart or let your heart be touched, you begin to discover that it's bottomless.
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The wisdom, the strength, the confidence - the awakened heart and mind are always accessible -- here, now, always.
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Compassion for others begins with kindness to ourselves.
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Ordinarily we are swept away by habitual momentum and don't interrupt our patterns slightly. When we feel betrayed or disappointed, does it occur to us to practice?
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Whole-heartedn ess is a precious gift, but no one can actually give it to you. You have to find the path that has heart and then walk it impeccably....It' s like someone laughing in your ear, challenging you to figure out what to do when you don't know what to do. It humbles you. It opens your heart.
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The idea is to develop sympathy for your own confusion.
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By not knowing, not hoping to know and not acting like we know what's happening, we begin to access our inner strength.
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Hope and fear come from feeling that we lack something they come from a sense of poverty. We can’t simply relax with ourselves. We hold on to hope, and hope robs us of the present moment. We feel that someone else knows what is going on, but that there is something missing in us, and therefore something is lacking in our world.
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Compassionate action starts with seeing yourself when you start to make yourself right and when you start to make yourself wrong. At that point you could just contemplate the fact that there is a larger alternative to either of those, a more tender, shaky kind of place where you could live.
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We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
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I can't overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
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