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If your relationship with someone is based on your desire for them to change into something radically different, there's no real closeness there, no real communication.

Patrick Califia

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Patrick Califia
Age: 70
Born: 1954
Born: March 8
Writer
Corpus Christi
Texas
Real
Closeness
Different
Radically
Something
Communication
Based
Relationship
Desire
Someone
Change

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