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. . . I would have let him go one finger at a time, until, without his realizing, he'd be floating without me. And then I thought, perhaps that is what it means to be a [parent] - to teach your child to live without you.

Nicole Krauss

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Nicole Krauss
Age: 50
Born: 1974
Born: August 18
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New York City
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