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I finally understood that no matter what I did, or who I found, I-he-none of us-would ever be able to win over the memories she had of Dad, memories that soothed her even while they made her sad, because she'd built a world out of them she knew how to survive on even if no one else could.

Nicole Krauss

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Nicole Krauss
Age: 50
Born: 1974
Born: August 18
Author
Novelist
Writer
Manhattan borough
New York City
Matter
Understood
Even
Memories
Made
Knew
Soothed
Would
Winning
Survive
World
Found
Dad
Else
Finally
Able
None
Ever
Built

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