Get yourself healthy before you get yourself married. Too often we bring our unexamined selves into our marriage relationship. Also, have a cultivating commitment to have a quality relationship with each other in your marriage.

Your relationships can only be as healthy as you are.

A bad marriage is worse than no marriage at all.

In order to know how to talk, you have to know what to say. In order to know what to say, you have to get in touch with those deep-inside-of-you thoughts, feelings, needs, and yearnings. These are the parts of you that must be communicated if you are going to be known.

Marriage doesn't just happen! It takes a solid set of decisions, a huge amount of skill and enormous willpower.