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The highest compliment one can be paid by another human being is to be told: 'Because of what you are, you are essential to my happiness.'

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Nathaniel Branden
Age: 84 †
Born: 1930
Born: April 9
Died: 2014
Died: December 3
Academic
Non-Fiction Writer
Psychologist
Psychotherapist
Humans
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Essentials
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Happiness
Another
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Compliment

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