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It's hard for black women to ask for help. We think we don't need it. We're used to being in pain and living with it.

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Morgan Parker
Age: 50
Born: 1974
Born: January 1
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In grad school, a friend and I gave ourselves the task of writing poems in the voice of Beyoncé and Lady Gaga after they did the collaboration for Telephone. I just kind of kept going. That was quite a while ago - Beyoncé meant something very different then than she does now.
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I wanted [the book 'There are More Beautiful Things Than Beyoncé?'] to be colorful. I wanted it to be evocative. I wanted a figure of a black woman that the reader has to confront.
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Hard times are really a fire under your ass to prioritize and think, Okay, how can I challenge myself to put something in the world that wasn't there that can reach other folks and help them to process?
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I've been thinking a lot about folks denying what has happened in history, or just not acknowledging it.
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I also think that [political turmoil] gives artists something, a way of kind of processing.
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I don't claim to say, All black women are like me, because they're not.
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There was something about Beyoncé that felt like a vessel, I guess, that I could kind of impose all of these feelings and thoughts onto. I was drawn to a little bit of a dichotomy between the glamour and celebrity and the very deep and complex legacy of black women, and what that means in terms of performance.
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I don't think that there are as many black women or women of color becoming psychiatrists, so we can't find them and then we feel looked at and studied and that's part of what is damaging to us. It's hard to find therapy that is actually a tool for your own liberation. I think we can be really distrustful.
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I guess the only thing I'd say is it ['There are More Beautiful Things Than Beyoncé?'] shouldn't be read as Beyoncé is not beautiful.
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I think there's something that's fascist [in Donald Trump's election], and something that I think we could probably learn from, in terms of the energy in the world right now.
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I think sometimes the stars align whether we want them to or not. And we're drawn to certain people and places for no other reason than...Destiny.
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There's so much about the strong black woman stereotype that makes us forget that we do need and deserve help and care.
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Аrt movements are always linked to some kind of turmoil.
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Sometimes it's just rejecting stereotypes, sometimes it's creating work. Sometimes it's just blocking out the noise.
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