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It's hard for black women to ask for help. We think we don't need it. We're used to being in pain and living with it.

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Morgan Parker
Age: 50
Born: 1974
Born: January 1
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I struggle with depression and anxiety, and I have since I was a teenager. I spent a good chunk of time being very ashamed of that. Now I feel committed to talking about it and trying to normalize it as much as I can.
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There was something about Beyoncé that felt like a vessel, I guess, that I could kind of impose all of these feelings and thoughts onto. I was drawn to a little bit of a dichotomy between the glamour and celebrity and the very deep and complex legacy of black women, and what that means in terms of performance.
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It's been interesting to look back on those works [I've done previously] and see all the things that Beyoncé has done and become for us in the meantime, because back then, folks were like, Why Beyoncé? I don't get why she is kind of the symbol for black womanhood.
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I don't claim to say, All black women are like me, because they're not.
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I think that we need to make it our goal to define freedom for ourselves.
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In grad school, a friend and I gave ourselves the task of writing poems in the voice of Beyoncé and Lady Gaga after they did the collaboration for Telephone. I just kind of kept going. That was quite a while ago - Beyoncé meant something very different then than she does now.
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There's something about us using the word fascism and thinking about, What is it? What does it mean, and what are the tenets of it?.
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I'm working on a young adult novel. I've been working on it for a while, because I don't know how to write a novel and I'm teaching myself. For that reason, I've been reading a lot of YA [young adults], which I never have before. It's totally new to me.
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I spent a lot of time trying to layer upon layer upon layer as I wrote. I think that's often the fear of a writer, that little nuances won't get picked up.
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My friends and I have all been super motivated to work and to do the work that we need to and want to and think should be in the world.
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Mickalene [Thomas] is an artist that I have admired for a long time. So much of her work inspires me - I spend time looking at her work when I'm writing. I feel like we're working toward the same themes, and I see our work in conversation, whether we know it or not.
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Hard times are really a fire under your ass to prioritize and think, Okay, how can I challenge myself to put something in the world that wasn't there that can reach other folks and help them to process?
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Sometimes it's just rejecting stereotypes, sometimes it's creating work. Sometimes it's just blocking out the noise.
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I also think that [political turmoil] gives artists something, a way of kind of processing.
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So much of the world and the systems that we live within are made to keep us from feeling like we're free. The way that black women in American came to be is just diametrically opposed to being free.
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I think there's something that's fascist [in Donald Trump's election], and something that I think we could probably learn from, in terms of the energy in the world right now.
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I've been thinking a lot about folks denying what has happened in history, or just not acknowledging it.
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I guess the only thing I'd say is it ['There are More Beautiful Things Than Beyoncé?'] shouldn't be read as Beyoncé is not beautiful.
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There's so much about the strong black woman stereotype that makes us forget that we do need and deserve help and care.
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Sometimes I feel as though I'm trying to take a hit for the team so that other people then can move forward. I'm like, Look, I just laid out all of my stuff, so what's the worst that can happen?.
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