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Perhaps the reason we are unable to love is that we yearn to be loved, that is, we demand something - love - from our partner instead of delivering ourselves up to him demand-free and asking for nothing but his company.

Milan Kundera

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Milan Kundera
Age: 95
Born: 1929
Born: April 1
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Brünn
Free
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Reason
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Demand
Yearn
Love
Perhaps
Lightness
Instead
Delivering
Loved
Unbearable
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