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you have to be very careful when you give to others that you don't tell them how great you are rather than how much you value them.

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Merle Shain
Age: 53 †
Born: 1935
Born: January 1
Died: 1989
Died: January 1
Author
Journalist
City of Toronto
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Compassion is the thing that leads you gently back to yourself.
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