Share
×
Inspirational Quotes
Authors
Professions
Topics
Tags
Quote
The answer doesn't lie in learning how to protect ourselves from life-it lies in learning how to become strong enough to let a bit more of it in.
Merle Shain
Share
Change background
T
T
T
Change font
Original
TAGS & TOPICS
Merle Shain
Age: 53 †
Born: 1935
Born: January 1
Died: 1989
Died: January 1
Author
Journalist
City of Toronto
Life
Learning
Answers
Bits
Lying
Strong
Doesn
Answer
Become
Lies
Enough
Protect
More quotes by Merle Shain
when you put something good into the world, something good comes back to you.
Merle Shain
Sex deepens love and love deepens sex, so physical intimacy transforms everything and playing with it is playing with fire.
Merle Shain
The conflict between what one is and who one is expected to be touches all of us. And sometimes, rather than reach for what one could be, we choose the comfort of the failed role, preferring to be the victim of circumstance, the person who didn't have a chance.
Merle Shain
One can never change the past, only the hold it has on you.
Merle Shain
But who would rush at a benighted man, and give him two black eyes for being blind?
Merle Shain
Loving can cost a lot but not loving always cost more.
Merle Shain
You can tell a lot about what a man lacks by watching what he is cynical about, and many of us are cynical about love.
Merle Shain
One can never change the past, only the hold it has on you, and while nothing in your life is reversible, you can reverse it nevertheless.
Merle Shain
The job of a friend is not to decide what should be done, not to run interference or pick up the slack. The job of a friend is to understand, and to supply energy and hope, and in doing so to keep those they value on their feet a little longer, so that they can fight another round and grow strong in themselves.
Merle Shain
It takes a lot of mulch, love does, to create a froth.
Merle Shain
Men who take advantage of one woman take advantage of them all.
Merle Shain
Loving can cost a lot but not loving always costs more, and those who fear to love often find that want of love is an emptiness that robs the joy from life.
Merle Shain
Love is short, forgetting is long, and understanding longer still.
Merle Shain
There are no perfect men of course, but some are more perfect than others, and we can use all of those we can get.
Merle Shain
The best kind of men have a certainty in themselves that isn't done in when countered by a certainty in their women, and they are much adored.
Merle Shain
you have to be very careful when you give to others that you don't tell them how great you are rather than how much you value them.
Merle Shain
Our strength is in our dreams, and those who do not dare to dream damn themselves.
Merle Shain
It takes great generosity to accept generosity.
Merle Shain
Feelings take you into uncharted territory from time to time it's true, but you almost always benefit from the journey one way or the other. We tend to think of the rational as a higher order, but it is the emotional that marks our lives.
Merle Shain
The roots of love sink down and deep and strike out far, and they are arteries that feed our lives, so we must see that they get the water and sun they need so they can nourish us. And when you put something good into the world, something good comes back to you.
Merle Shain