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I respect people who come forward and speak, but I'm not asking most of the sex workers I interview now about their work. I'm asking them about their lives in general or their political organizing. I take pains source things pointing back to intellectual work that sex workers have produced, because that's really absent.

Melissa Gira Grant

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Melissa Gira Grant
Age: 46
Born: 1978
Born: January 1
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