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I always thought it was the saddest and most devastating ending. How you could have these enormous dreams that never get met. How without knowing it you could just make yourself smaller over time. I don't want that to happen to me.

Meg Wolitzer

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Meg Wolitzer
Age: 65
Born: 1959
Born: May 28
Novelist
University Teacher
Writer
Brooklyn
New York
Dream
Smaller
Thought
Ending
Without
Enormous
Make
Mets
Always
Dreams
Never
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Time
Knowing
Devastating
Life
Happens
Saddest

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