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When parents die, all of the partings of the past are reevoked with the realization that this time they will not return.
Mary Catherine Bateson
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Mary Catherine Bateson
Age: 81 †
Born: 1939
Born: December 8
Died: 2021
Died: January 2
Anthropologist
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New York City
New York
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Most higher education is devoted to affirming the traditions and origins of an existing elite and transmitting them to new members.
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There are few things as toxic as a bad metaphor. You can't think without metaphors.
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Learning to savor the vertigo of doing without answers or making do with fragmentary ones opens up the pleasures of recognizing and playing with patterns, finding coherence within complexity, sharing within multiplicity.
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Fear is not a good teacher. The lessons of fear are quickly forgotten.
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The Christian tradition was passed on to me as a great rich mixture, a bouillabaisse of human imagination and wonder brewed from the richness of individual lives.
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Sharing is sometimes more demanding than giving.
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The past empowers the present, and the sweeping footsteps leading to this present mark the pathways to the future.
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Human beings tend to regard the conventions of their own societies as natural, often as sacred.
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