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Sociopathy is the inability to process emotional experience, including love and caring, except when such experience can be calculated as a coldly intellectual task.

Martha Stout

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Martha Stout
Age: 71
Born: 1953
Born: August 12
Psychologist
Emotional
Calculated
Process
Inability
Experience
Caring
Love
Task
Tasks
Including
Except
Sociopathy
Intellectual
Coldly

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