What happens when it’s 2 a.m. and you’re alone in a hotel room with the devil’s minibar? Minibar – one Marissa – zero.

I have no regrets. I had an amazing surrogate who carried my son for me. I am so grateful to her. I can even say I am grateful for having cancer. I was always meant to be a mom, but if I didnt have cancer, I never would have had Zev. I would have had a kid, but not Zev, and I want Zev - tantrums and all.

I know many people have said it before, but there is nothing a cup of coffee and a new pair of shoes can't fix!

I am the youngest of four siblings, and were all so close. I dont know where I would be without my brothers and sister. I secretly believe that my parents love me the most!

On Dec. 10, 2000, I learned I was free of cancer.

Because dancing is way more fun than the treadmill, I downloaded the video of Beyonces Single Ladies and started to learn her dance. Let me tell you, if I ever did that dance in a club, I would still be a single lady! But what a workout!