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loneliness is not a longing for company, it is a longing for kind. And kind means people who can see you who you are, and that means they have enough intelligence and sensitivity and patience to do that.

Marilyn French

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Marilyn French
Age: 79 †
Born: 1929
Born: November 21
Died: 2009
Died: May 2
Author
Feminist
Novelist
Social Critic
Writer
Brooklyn
New York
Means
Enough
Mean
Sensitivity
Kind
Longing
People
Loneliness
Patience
Intelligence
Company

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