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We invest less in our friendships and expect more of friends than any other relationship. We spend days working out where to book for a romantic dinner, weeks wondering how to celebrate a partner or parent's birthday, and seconds forgetting a friend's important anniversary.

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Mariella Frostrup
Age: 61
Born: 1962
Born: November 12
Journalist
Oslo
Norway
Partners
Friendships
Book
Week
Forgetting
Important
Parent
Romantic
Wondering
Days
Celebrate
Invest
Wonder
Dinner
Partner
Working
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Seconds
Friends
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Weeks
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Birthday
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