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But for the first time, I had a religious identity. I had come home. And so I called myself a Zen Buddhist at the age of 18.

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M. Scott Peck
Age: 69 †
Born: 1936
Born: May 22
Died: 2005
Died: September 25
Psychiatrist
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New York City
New York
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