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Laughing and crying are very similar. Sometimes people go from laughing to crying, or crying to laughing. I remember being at someone's wedding and she couldn't stop laughing, through the whole ceremony. If she'd been crying, it would have seemed more normal, though.

Lynne Tillman

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Lynne Tillman
Age: 77
Born: 1947
Born: January 1
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