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There seemed to be three choices: to give up trying to love anyone, to stop being selfish, or to learn to love a person while continuing to be selfish.

Lydia Davis

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Lydia Davis
Age: 77
Born: 1947
Born: July 15
Linguist
Novelist
Translator
University Teacher
Writer
Northampton
Massachusetts
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Seemed
Giving
Stop
Trying
Choices
Love
Anyone
Learn
Three
Give
Continuing
Persons
Selfish

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