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People give themselves to you, in their talking, and in other ways, if you are quiet and patient and let them, and not in such a damned rush to give yourself to them you go bat-blind and deaf.

Lois McMaster Bujold

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Lois McMaster Bujold
Age: 75
Born: 1949
Born: November 2
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Too late, he recalled Miles's dictum that the reward for a job well done was usually a harder job.
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Guard your honor. Let your reputation fall where it will. And outlive the bastards.
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