What is Truth? Truth is the attribute of when the human heart marries the love of God, and the result is passion for your spiritual path.

Don't be so fond of what you planned that somehow to change it seems like a violation of your own choice and wisdom. It's just the opposite.

See your reality as a life that has many tracks or potentials that you call the future.

Don't be so glued to what you planned that you can't change it.

The problem with being linear minded is that you would ask this at all! You assume that you must do one or the other. Plan or not plan. How about planning to walk in a certain direction until the now offers you another plan?

Planning is like pointing yourself in the direction of a target...no more than that. Let your power then redefine the target, and re-point you in the correct direction. Think of it like this: An arrow is never going to hit the target unless it's in flight. If you sit around and wait for God to shoot the arrow, nothing is going to happen.